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Esther Cohen
Oct 24, 2021
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A nurse named Jim was in charge of the Recovery Waiting Room at NYU Langone

Orthopedic Hospital, on 17th Street and 2nd Avenue, where all patients were

attending to specific body parts:  hips, knees, and shoulders taking precedence but

there were some pelvic breaks, some few femur issues.

Jim is getting his PhD in psychiatry and he explained to all of us waiting that he

learned how important community is at times like these.  So we’ll make one he said. 

We’ll begin by introducing ourselves to one another.  Let’s start with the nun on my

left he said. 

Six of us were in the room called Recovery.  It was a small windowless hospital room

with a standard motel painting of a boat that seemed more appropriate for a cheap

hotel than NYU’s illustrious Langone Orthopedic Hospital.  The six of us were me (

waiting for Peter’s new hip), a Russian woman from Brighton beach (also waiting for

her husband’s hip), a nun (hip too), a thin fit man (his wife had pelvic fracture,  a

Bengali engineer (her Rugby playing husband tore his knee) and a

youngishman (girlfriend’s knee).

The nun was an older woman, even older than the rest of us, dressed in a timeless

white habit. I’m Sister Ana from Convent of the Miserable she actually said.

It’s on West 20th Street.  I was born in Chile and I am here because Sister Mary took a

big fall.  She’s having her hip fixed by Dr. Madrid she said.  We all smiled at her.  We

were in this together.  AA, NA, Body Parts.

Arthur was next.  He looked familiar, the way so many people do these days, though

he was a  maybe a little more fit than the world I inhabit. He had no belly.

He was 70ish, wearing a too bright yellow T- shirt, something he might wear to golf. 

Sometimes I wish I knew people who golfed, but I don’t.  Arthur had a deep Brooklyn

voice, loud and pleasing. Like a family member.

My wife tripped over my foot he said, and looked embarrassed.  We were going to our

first Broadway show since the pandemic – Girl from North Country.  We’re both big

Dylan fans. I don’t know exactly how she did it but she fell right down.  We decided

we’d see the show anyway and we did.  Everything was OK until after.  It hurt when

she stood.  She called her doctor and he said it was probably nothing so she waited a

week.  The pelvic pain got worse so she had an MRI.  She’s getting pelvic pins today

said Arthur.

I’m not sure why, but I asked him how they met.

Funny story he replied..  Fifty two years ago, my best friend’s father was at Montefiore

Hospital.  I called the hospital and asked client services how Morty was doing.  The

woman said Morty was sufficient.  I told her that was an insufficient answer and we

began a real conversation.

I liked her right away and asked if she was interested in going out with my friend. 

The one whose father was Morty.  He’d be visiting the hospital in a day or two and

could look her up.

What’s wrong with you she asked.  How much time do you have was my answer.

A week later we went out to dinner and talked all night.

And that was that said Arthur. We’ve been married 51 years.

We all asked Arthur a series of questions:  what had their life been like together.  

Better than he expected.  

Did they have children. Two – both married.  Still in Brooklyn. 

Did he have any regrets?  Oddly enough the nun asked this question.

Yes said Arthur.  He wished he’d flown a plane, but that was all. 

We spent about an hour talking to Arthur, who was a natural fielding

questions.  What did he do for a living, for example.  He sold office furniture – it had

been his uncle’s business. All questions deserved lengthy explanations. 

We were glad, all of us, not to be thinking about the body parts of people we loved,

glad to be together.

You see said Jim the nurse.  Talking to strangers always works.

I don’t know said the Russian woman from Brighton Beach.  No one mentioned

politics.

And we won’t Jim replied.

Sister Ana and Ayisha in the Recovery Room

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Jessica de Koninck
Oct 24, 2021Author

Terrific

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Esther Goodman
Oct 24, 2021Liked by Esther Cohen

Jim's idea was helpful for those waiting anxiously for news of how those surgeries went. But what goes on in the actual recovery room and in the days and weeks of rehab afterwards among those who've just undergone their surgery? A veteran of 3 such surgeries, I found community in rehab, but none of the connections I made there lasted longer than one greeting card exchange. Re-entry into one's old world takes up so much energy it leaves little for forming new ties. But perhaps someone else has had a different experience? I'd like to hear about that. I still think about some of my hospital/rehab foxhole buddies, wondering how they're doing yet unable to remember their names. (I should have kept a diary.)

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